When the life you built no longer fits, I'll help you work out what comes next.
Personalised one-to-one coaching for people in their 40s and 50s who have built a successful life but feel restless, stuck or uncertain about what comes next.
Together, we’ll step back from the noise, reconnect with what matters and build a practical Life Playbook for a next chapter that feels more aligned, purposeful and fully your own.
You’re still functioning. But something no longer feels right.
You may have the career, family, home and financial responsibilities you once worked hard to create.
From the outside, there may be little to complain about. But inside, you know something has changed.
You may recognise yourself in one or more of these:
- You’re going through the motions in a successful life, but the energy or satisfaction has quietly fade
- You know something needs to change, but responsibility, risk or overthinking keeps you where you are.
- You stay busy, set new goals or keep searching for the next thing, yet still feel unfulfilled.
- When something feels off, you work harder, carry more and push through the signals.
- You feel untethered or unclear about who you are now, what you want or which direction to take.
- The strain is becoming difficult to ignore - through exhaustion, relationship pressure, a health concern or a career turning point.
You don’t need to be in crisis to benefit from coaching.
You may simply need the space, structure and personal guidance to understand what is happening, see your choices more clearly and work out what comes next.
The goal isn’t to become someone else. It is to build a life that fits who you are now.
Coaching creates space to step outside the demands of everyday life and examine what is really happening.
The work may help you:
Understand what feels off
Separate the underlying issue from the symptoms, noise and immediate pressure around it.
Reconnect with what matters
Clarify the values, relationships, strengths and experiences that make life meaningful to you.
Redefine success
Create a more current picture of success based on who you are now and the life you want next.
Make clearer decisions
Think through career, relationship, financial and lifestyle choices without reacting impulsively.
Realign the key parts of life
Consider your health and wellbeing, relationships, career and wealth as connected parts of one life.
Build momentum
Turn insight into practical microshifts that create movement without unnecessary upheaval.
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The outcome intended is greater clarity about what matters, confidence in your direction and a practical way to move forward.
Your situation is unique. Your Life Playbook will be too.
The Life Playbook and six microshifts provide the structure, but the process is shaped around your life, your priorities and what you want next.
I bring the strategic discipline of my business background, the human insight of coaching and the perspective of someone who has navigated his own midlife redesign.
Over 100 days, our work moves through four stages:
Take Stock
We make sense of where you are now - what is working, what isn't, what has changed, what is missing and what deserves your attention.
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Clarify What Matters
We reconnect you to what matters now and identify the people, experiences and priorities in your life that bring you meaning.Â
Redesign Success
We create a more current picture of success, happiness and fulfilment for each of the important areas in your life - and clarify who you need to become to live it.
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Make your Moves
We identify practical decisions and actions that create clarity, confidence over time - supported by a system to enable focus and momentum ongoing.
Personal guidance, practical tools and support to keep you moving.
The 100-Day Life Playbook Reset combines the structure of The Life Playbook with personalised one-to-one coaching from Ben.
You’ll receive:
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10 Private 60-minute coaching sessions, held by video call or face to face
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A confidential space to think honestly and see your situation more clearly
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Personal guidance through each stage of The Life Playbook process
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Lifetime access to the video-guided lessons and practical worksheets
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Additional tools and bonus materials selected to support your needs
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A whole-of-life perspective across wellbeing, relationships, career and wealth
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Honest questions and thoughtful challenge that take you beyond surface-level answers
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Practical microshifts to put into action between sessions
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Personalised support and accountability as you make your first moves
This is a structured process, tailored to you. You’ll have space to step back and reflect - but the work won’t remain theoretical. Together, we’ll turn what you discover into meaningful decisions, practical action and momentum that continues beyond the 100 days.
What clients say about working with Ben.
Patrick
“Ben is a true partner in the coaching process. He is a patient and insightful listener with a gift for seeing both what is already great in people and what they have the potential to become. He balances compassion and encouragement with thoughtful challenge, helping people reconnect with their passions and purpose - and translate those insights into concrete, actionable plans for living them more fully.”
Garry
“Working with Ben helped me become clear about what would genuinely fulfil me across my career, relationships, lifestyle, interests and investments. I came to understand how these important areas could work together rather than compete with one another. With Ben’s guidance, I realised that what I wanted was already within my reach - I needed to clarify it and join the dots. The process helped me create one meaningful plan, with goals and actions that genuinely motivate me.”
Felicity
“The program structure was invaluable in helping me navigate towards living and loving my life with purpose. Ben listened carefully, offered valuable insights and helped me distil my thoughts. His supportive yet questioning approach helped me get to the heart of my vision and plans quickly. He has a remarkable ability to understand people deeply, articulate what they are trying to express and create clarity where it is needed most.”
Chris
“I loved every minute of the program. It was insightful, challenging and empowering, giving me a greater understanding of my purpose and how to bring it to life across every part of my life.
Ben is a sensational coach - he positively agitates, listens actively and works with me to capture the essence of what I am thinking and feeling. He inspired me to challenge myself, find greater alignment and turn my purpose into action.
I would recommend the experience to anyone seeking greater alignment or a more strategic approach to their personal and professional life - particularly people in leadership roles, where balance and effectiveness are critical.”
Coaching works best when you’re ready to look honestly at where you are.
This may be a good fit if:
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You’re willing to take responsibility for your choices and what comes next.
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You’re open to examining assumptions, habits and patterns that may no longer serve you.
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You want practical change, not simply a place to vent.
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You’re prepared to make time for reflection and action between conversations.
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You value honest, grounded support rather than hype or easy answers.
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You want to make considered changes without abandoning your responsibilities.
This may not be the right fit if:
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You want someone else to tell you exactly what to do.
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You’re looking for a quick fix without making changes yourself.
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Someone else is pressuring you to attend, but you aren’t personally ready.
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You primarily need urgent or clinical mental-health support rather than coaching.
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You’re unwilling to make time for the work outside the sessions.
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You don’t need to know exactly what you want before applying.
You simply need to recognise that something deserves your attention- and be willing to explore it honestly.
Ready to reset your Playbook?
Tell me a little about where you are now, what feels out of alignment and what you want to change.
Completing the application doesn’t commit either of us. If the 100-Day Life Playbook Reset appears to be a good fit, we’ll arrange an initial conversation and decide on the next step together.
You don’t have to be ready for coaching to begin thinking differently.
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